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Rosa's Choice: Healing the Wounds of the Mother, offers a fascinating behind the scenes peek into life before life. It reveals the choices made by spirit babies, why they choose not to come just yet, why they choose not to stay. And why your journey to motherhood is part of your soul healing journey. The book also reveals how there is a wave of new souls here and waiting to arrive, who together with their parents and life guides, are playing a much bigger role in building a New Earth. This book is therefore not only for women on their journey to motherhood, but for all those whose role it is to support them, their babies and Mother Earth herself. 

It brings the spiritual and practical together with messages from the spirit baby realm and Divine Masters on the energy of creation and the imbalance between the feminine and masculine. It also examines very practically the various thought patterns and beliefs that affect the way we see, feel and experience life, including the journey to motherhood, and how to transform them. 

It is essentially three books in one with each part awakening and opening you up ever deeper into the truth and magnificence of who you are and the role you're here to play.


In my eyes, Rosa is my baby soul in spirit, who I said a heart-breaking hello and goodbye to on 5th December 2010, in a life-changing moment of choice. I had no idea at the time, in my sense of unworthiness, victimhood and grief, that she was so much more than that; that I was so much more than that. That life, before, whilst here and after, is so much more than that.

Our story, I hope, will open your hearts and minds to the full glory of this life on earth and beyond, and what it means for each and every one of us, on an individual, collective and spiritual level.

"Saying a heartbreaking hello and goodbye to my daughter, Rosa, before twenty weeks of pregnancy had passed, has been the greatest challenge and the greatest gift I have ever received. "



Debra Kilby is a spirit baby medium, conscious conception specialist, channel, healer and spiritual guide. Debra supports women on their journey to motherhood, whether they are struggling to conceive, have experienced baby loss or a traumatic birth. Debra's own challenging journey to motherhood through birth trauma, three miscarriages and a medical termination catapulted her into her spiritual awakening and discovering her life purpose. Her Soul's contract is to bring women, their babies and future babies together. To heal the deep wounds of the Mother and the Divine Feminine within this lifetime and others. Through deep, loving inner exploration, Debra guides women to transform their perception and understanding of themselves and their journey, to move from a place of questioning and pain to one of freedom, self-awareness, belief and empowerment. To knowing themselves as loving and powerful creators of life with the ability to hold and birth the energy of new life. Debra works alongside spirit babies to help their mums see themselves as they see them - love.

Rosa's Choice | Healing the Wounds of the Mother

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